If you saw this girl with a teddy bear, you'd know why there was no other choice for her first birthday. She hugs them tight to her neck and loves each one like it's the only one.
The saddest thing is I've yet to get a picture of her doing it. I'll run and grab the camera, but it's too late. The tight bear hug is upon first sight only.
The one year old party is a catch 22. How can you not celebrate the first year? But how can you be sure the birthday girl will even be awake for the big event?
At first, I told the kids they could each invite one friend. Actually, I was cajoled into it. I wanted a simple family party the whole time...that way we could do it when Carmen would be at her best and could have the most fun.
I called it just in time.
We un-invited all friends (there was only one that knew about it and they were understanding) and instead I gave each of Carmen's siblings one of the invitations. This was going to be a family party.
Next step, gather all participating stuffed animals. We had wanted to make party hats for all the animals, but it was a little harder than it looked.... so after three, we called it quits.
We did have fun making these paper flower decorations from brown bags. The idea came from
Martha Stewart, of course, and I was sure they would not turn out because my stuff never turns out as good as hers. I think I was wrong. I had a hard time throwing them away after the party.
And it's not a party without food.
The extent of my cooking was the bear claw brownies made from scratch. Isabela placed them around the table like the bears had been walking through all the food.
We had lots of berries, melons, nuts and teddy grahams, which bears all love to eat; plus chex mix, cheez-its and ham sandwiches which people do.
It's also not a party without pin the tail on something, right? I fell in love with this bear's cute expression...I made him out of grocery bags and added some fur scraps to his ears.
We made it pin the bow on the bear.
OK, so I still haven't taken this down yet.
Another cute game was called 'feed the baby bear'. Carmen was the baby bear. We used our play fish and a magnet fishing pole to hook one, then dangled it in front of Carmen and she would grab it off the line. We did a trial run before the party to see if she'd do it which was good because she ended up taking a nap half-way through the party and missed this game. Instead, Joaquin tried to catch all the fish at once, then whiz them through the air at me as I tried to grab them. He thought it was hilarious that I kept missing them.
The idea of the bear hunt came by chance.
Someone on pinterest had pinned
this video of the author of
We're Going on a Bear Hunt retelling the story. We watched it.... and at first, we were really creeped out by it. You must watch it to understand.
Go now. You'll have a great laugh. We sat there unable to turn it off but with odd expressions on our faces the entire time. I should say we later watched other videos he's made and they're quite addictive. Not as scary and the bear hunt one.
So we made a bear hunt obstacle course in our house for the party. Here's Isabela getting the cave ready.
Green streamers for grass, blue for water. There was a brown blanket for mud. They even had to go up the tree fort for the forest part.
In the book, there's a snow storm...so we hung a lacy table cloth and put a white comforter on the floor to crawl over. The bear paw prints led the way.
That rabbit better watch out!
We also made a beehive piñata. It was filled with swedish fish (bears love fish) and chocolate (I think they love that, too). We didn't whack it until several days later when we had more time...benefits of a family only party.
It was interesting going all out on a party just for us. There were moments of 'why bother?' and others of 'this is what is important...we're what is special'. I think I got the idea from reading blogs like
Katherine Marie Photography or
The Orange Rhino. I want my family to know they are worth it.
Carmen had a great day. It wasn't too much, and it was just her pace.
And that strawberry cupcake was just as delicious as it looked. I know. I had three.